So I just got home from the
Wednesday night shemale strip events. Wow, what a busy night - lots of the usual single men looking for some t-girl fun, and then 2 male/female couples, both of which indulged in VIP dances.
I always love seeing couples at the Lounge because it shows that they have opened their minds to things beyond traditional hetero coupling. Not that I am against traditional hetero coupling, it's just that I like seeing people trying new things, freeing themselves from the traditional influences that they were raised with.
I did not take photos this evening, I am thinking I will take photos at least every second week at the shemale strip events, otherwise the photos will become boring.
The T-Girl spa night last night was interesting - there are funny patterns that have been occuring at the spa since its inception (August 2004). One of which is the imbalance between T-Girls and their admirers. This is the way it has often been at our events since day 1, because of the size of Toronto's scene. It always amazed me, the patience the admirers would have, waiting for hours for ladies to arrive (as ladies do like to choose to make their entrance when THEY are good and ready!).
When we first started holding the Shemale Nights club event at El Convento Rico years and years ago, the first couple nights, the men came in huge numbers, and the ladies sent their representatives to check out the event, to decide whether it was worthy of their attending it the following event. Then the girls started coming out in huge numbers, I remember one night where there were at least 40 T-Girls, but some of the men who had been patient stopped coming. Until they heard of the plethora of girls, and decided to come back. Back/Forth, Back/Forth, and about half of the time the balance would be perfect. The other times, most people had a great time, but they had to wait. Again, it is the patience of the T-Girl Lover, a quality I have observed and admired in all of you T-Girl loving men over the years. (FYI, for those who do not know, I am not a "T-Girl Lover" in a sexual way, I have a male partner, but I am a T-Girl Lover in that I am their friend, an admirer of their struggle and of their remarkable transformations (I am obsessed with plastic surgery details). I generally have identified as more on the gay side of things, if we must use labels. But I want T-Girl lovers out there to know that I respect them, I understand them, and I think they are very cool and interesting guys.)
OK, that tangent aside, continuing what I started saying. The spa seems to go every other week in terms of lots of T-Girls, less men, and vice versa. Last night the spa had tons of T-Girls, and oddly so, they were all there earlier in the evening (they usually make their entrance at 10pm). This time the men made the ladies wait, and interestingly enough, the ladies were patient too, I did not hear a lot of complaining. So by the end of the night, there was a very good balance, there was none of that pacing up and down the hall of men in towels, patiently hoping to find a T-Girl to have fun with. I can tell the spa is hot when all the traffic stops, it means everyone is paired up in rooms or in the orgy room watching fun.
My instinct says that next week at the spa will be the right balance. Come on and check it out.
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